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Probably NOT the regulator, as revving the engine makes the problem stop. Do you use electric start? If you do, and it starts okay, you need to be checking connections and earths to the affected items (lights/indicators), though my guess will be wiring/earth to the headlight, as you don't routinely use it, dirt or corrosion can start in the connections and you wont notice it.