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I'm sorry to read about the loss of your sister and other family bereavements Bryan you have my deepest sympathy/empathy.
I know you are younger than me but sadly I suspect it's what the future holds for those of us lucky enough to still be around.
The days of Weddings & Christenings seem to become outnumbered by Funerals not to mention ill health encroaching on friends & family members.
In the last five years I've tried to be more pragmatic about life in general often smiling about stuff like "Looking on the bright side of Life" counting my blessings etc. I have no religous beliefs to fall back on for support when things become heavy, I'm fortunate enough to have a few close long standing friends.
There is something quite cathartic and supportive about sharing with virtual friends when we go through tough times to know you are not alone.