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Offline Johnny4428

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Re: Personal circumstances - major change last Sunday 13th April 2025.
« Reply #30 on: August 19, 2025, 06:50:43 AM »
Thanks for sharing that update with us Ted. I wish you and Wendy well and hope there is a steady continuing improvement. As Bryan says you got to think of your own health and well being as well.
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Re: Personal circumstances - major change last Sunday 13th April 2025.
« Reply #31 on: August 19, 2025, 07:48:11 AM »
Best wishes to you both, the leg will get stronger with the physio, the mussles have got week over time, both keep well and as already said, look after you, so you can look after Wendy.
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Re: Personal circumstances - major change last Sunday 13th April 2025.
« Reply #32 on: August 19, 2025, 10:16:06 AM »
My best wishes to you and Wendy. Keep taking the tablets! 👍
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Re: Personal circumstances - major change last Sunday 13th April 2025.
« Reply #33 on: August 19, 2025, 01:59:50 PM »
Rayzer Emergency Lifting Chair was the lifting gadget.
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Re: Personal circumstances - major change last Sunday 13th April 2025.
« Reply #34 on: August 19, 2025, 02:52:21 PM »
Thanks for the update Ted. Hopefully Wendy gets stronger day by day and the end result will be a good one. As Bryan says you also to look after yourself 👍
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Re: Personal circumstances - major change last Sunday 13th April 2025.
« Reply #35 on: August 19, 2025, 02:54:22 PM »
Rayzer Emergency Lifting Chair was the lifting gadget.

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Glad to hear another small step in Wendy's recovery Ted.
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Re: Personal circumstances - major change last Sunday 13th April 2025.
« Reply #36 on: August 20, 2025, 08:18:04 PM »
Ted, I hope that the care package works out for you both - I had to arrange something similar for my mother earlier this year following a stroke and fall, although we had no free period from the NHS to tide us over, it was just pay from day one.

I would recommend that you carefully read the terms and conditions of any of organisation that you employ directly, for instance the first one that I arranged to care for mother charged one week at full rate and the second week at 50% of full rate for any cancellation of service through such events as hospital stays etc; whereas the second organisation charged only one day at full rate to suspend their services. With costs of around £1000 per week, the unused visits really add up!

The greatest problem that I had, however, was finding an organisation that would actually provide the package of four visits per day, few were interested in that level of commitment. In the end, the hospital discharge team put me in touch with a company in Crawley who, without charge, trawled through all of the available providers covering this area (central Norfolk) and then left it to me to choose between them (there were only three).

Unfortunately, it didn't work out for mother because she kept falling, and she is now in a local care home. Interestingly enough, the cost of that in one of their largest rooms (it is REALLY large) is less than the cost of four home visits per day from care providers. Aditionally, ANY overnight stay would have cost an additional £350.00 per seven - hour shift for home care.

Anyway, I do hope that it all works out for you both and although perhaps not too well yourself, you can find a way through it all.

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Re: Personal circumstances - major change last Sunday 13th April 2025.
« Reply #37 on: August 21, 2025, 01:26:25 PM »
Best wishes for you both,



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Re: Personal circumstances - major change last Sunday 13th April 2025.
« Reply #38 on: August 21, 2025, 05:11:41 PM »
Ted,
Although I'm a newbie here, I just wanted to let you know you'll both be in my thoughts. I've no doubt the fellowship, support, and friendship that is so clearly evident in this community will be a comfort to you and will bring you strength.
Approximately 18 months ago my wife was diagnosed with terminal blood cancer, so I know a little about how difficult these times of illness can be.
My kindest regards to you both,
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